Expanding our Blog Box

Over the course of this year, I have had the opportunity to speak to many women through the Women, Work & Community network, as well as through other venues. One of the things that comes up periodically is the 2010 Progress Blog that Mandy and I have been working on for the past year. This blog has been an invaluable tool for my confidence and organization. It’s similar to having a work-out partner. There is somebody else who keeps me accountable. I let others know how that kind of support helps to push me forward. And, the lists, the lists that keep us on task and keeps our sights set on the goals we set.

Hey, Mandy!

What if we expand our blog and put it out there? Offer other women a place to find encouragement, and to give encouragement; to write about their accomplishments and their failures; to allow others to learn from them and to learn from others the way you and I have done. The idea behind this blog was to move forward on dreams and aspirations we had put off due to our own internal restrictions. I think we could encourage others to do the same. We don’t have to be confined in these small, square compartments we think we belong in, or others tell us we belong in.

Do you think there is a need, a niche we could fill? Maybe we could be the next big thing in blogging.

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Last week was a good week all in all. I spent some time with my neighbor and her family. We baked pies together and talked about God. She came to church with us Wednesday night. She agreed to a Bible study with me. I'm very thankful.

Thursday was Thanksgiving day and though my oven gave me fits and even high-jacked my turkey for a short time, it was great. I love to have family in my home to entertain and visit. The meal was wonderful and the games were great fun. I was very excited to have Row and Ari join us for a few rounds when they arrived.

Black Friday was a long day but entirely fantastic. Row and Ari and I hit the mall and stores early and even braved the weather to get some good deals. It was thoroughly successful! Spending time with Ari is always fun. I wish she were closer that we could spend time together more often. She's always fun to be with. Having Row with me that day just felt natural. Like she was meant to be there with me. I can't say that our sisterly relationship has never been strained, but this year has brought us closer together than ever before. I'm so thankful that she's been there for me and my family this year. I don't know what I would have done without her. I only hope I can return the gesture.

This week I will:

1. Clean up after Thanksgiving
2. Laundry
3. Fill out recipe cards for church cookbook
4. Work on SS walls
5. Christmas drama practice
6. Plan for SS party
7. Sort Christmas gifts

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Let’s see, what did I accomplish last week? Oh, that’s right, I made it through with most of my sanity still in tact.

Monday I was asked to be part of a radio interview for Women Work and Community. I was nervous, but think it went really well, just the same. Spent the morning at work, went to the interview and then home. I was in no mood to put up with MMA. Tuesday, kind of foggy on that day. Wednesday, worked, baked a pie, did some other stuff.

Thursday was Thanksgiving. I got up, baked another pie, had dinner at J’s parents house, then packed Ari in the car, made sure Z had all of his stuff in his car and headed south; south to sanity. Z decided to head back to So. China early to avoid a nasty winter storm headed in. Being so new to driving on his own, we all felt it was best to get him home safely.

I had such a nice time Thursday evening. I finally got to meet my new niece, M’iah. She was happy and sweet and perfectly cuddly. I needed that. I also got to visit with Uncle Bob, Auntie, John, Mike, Rachel and Rachel’s mom. We ate pie, and played games, just like the old days. It was a happy evening.

Friday opened with Black Friday shopping bright and early. I found it wasn’t as bad as I had heard it would be. I enjoyed being out with my girl and my dear sister so much. Ari had a great time and that was the whole point. She came back with bags of stuff and broke; a successful shopping trip! I think my favorite part of the day was sitting quietly on the couch with Mandy, Little Women playing in the background, taking turns leaning on each other, that evening. I think we were both dozing and just enjoying the company. I wasn’t ten minutes from her front door, Saturday morning, and I was missing her.

Sunday, I made up for lost time and got a huge DbR project completed. Service First Auto now has a sign on the front of its building and a two-sided sign in their shop waiting for a frame to be built for it. I also started their business card design, finished some branding work for another client and designed a Christmas card for my brother. It was a good day.

1. Bridal EXPO meeting Monday night
2. Purchase laptop for MMA GFC
3. Bridal EXPO vendor hunting
4. Layout DbR shop sign
5. Update website and FB page
6. Finish two blog entries that I have started
7. Figure out a way to pay some bills *sigh*
8. Try to catch up on some house work

Life is Change

Life is change, but it isn’t always the kind that jingles in your pocket. Four years ago my life changed. It changed for the better, but it broke my heart to do it. Today, my heart breaks again. I know I did the right thing; the only thing I could do to live a better life. But, knowing that in my head, doesn’t heal the heart any faster. My biggest problem is how alone I feel with my pain today.

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This week I will try not to be idle. There are several things going on but also several things that need to be done that I've been putting off. I've already started by going grocery shopping this morning. It's probably been a month or more since I've really gone grocery shopping. We've picked up a few things here and there but my husband opened the fridge and said, "Our fridge needs friends." Hint, hint. It has many friends now.

I clean twice this week, need to do some sewing, need to get the car to the mechanics, and will be going north to see my niece in her high school musical. Not to mention picking up the slack at home, i.e. cleaning the bathroom, doing laundry, picking up, etc...

My husband's job dissolves this week. We're praying for a job offer before the week ends.

This week I will:

1. Work
2. Sew
3. Clean
4. Visit my fabulous sister and her family!

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Another crazy week, but very exhilarating. I spent Monday in Augusta at a state wide Ambassadors meeting for Maine Center for Women Work and Community. I was impressed by the energy that those women, and one man, exuded, and I was part of it. I even got up in front of everyone and did a small presentation. I was told I was a good speaker by somebody I had only met that day. She went out of her way to speak to me, just to pay me a compliment. I was floating. I am also surprised to find that I enjoyed it. I enjoyed being in front of 50 people, sharing information, and having them eagerly listening. I even got a few laughs, which was never my intention, but happened seamlessly. Maybe I have found where I will make the biggest difference; my hook.

On Tuesday I spent the morning at Penmor Lithographers, a print shop out of Lewiston. It is a large facility that offers a very wide variety of printing options. They don’t have a design staff, but some of their pre-press people design prototypes of boxes and packaging. I felt, again, I was where I belonged. I was able to converse easily with the owners of the company as they showed me around. Because of my experience with Northeast Publishing, I understood what the equipment did and what questions to ask. I was told more than once that it was nice to speak with a designer who knew the back side of the printing process.

I drove to Bangor and had lunch with Mandy, Eric and the kids. It was so nice to see them again, though the time flew by and before I knew it, it was time to head north again. I always feel my roots when I am around them. I can't wait to go back down for Black Friday Shopping with Arianna. Ok, so maybe not looking forward so much to the actual shopping and lines, but spending time with Mandy and the kids.

The last three days have been a whirlwind of running Arianna to her drama practices, finishing quotes and starting some of the projects that have been in the wings. Friday is opening night for Ari’s play, and I will be there, where I should be, cheering her on and taking far too many photos, in her opinion.

It has been a great week. I feel refreshed and have a new energy for DbR. Unfortunately I have to go back to MMA on Monday. I am trying not to think about it, as it will distract me from what I have to complete this weekend.

1. Complete design for Bartley b.cards
2. Finish typing notes from the WWC meeting for the local meeting on Thursday morning.
3. Work on SMP’s branding items
4. Clean the house
5. Find homes for some puppies

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Last week was awesome! I was extra busy working for The Occasional Housewife. My clients were extremely happy with my work and were more than happy to pay for the service. One of my clients who initially contracted me for just the week, promised to contact me for regular cleanings in the future. Another client asked that I concentrate on her kitchen area because she was having dinner guests. So I did a little redecorating and clearing of clutter. It's always a little touchy not knowing what people will think of what you've done with their home, but she emailed me later to say Thank You and how much she liked it. The work is strenuous sometimes but the pay and compliments make it worth it, of course.

This week is not so busy. Just one day of work this week. However, I'm also looking forward to lunch and a little shopping with Row on Tuesday. I'll be spending some time cleaning my house and maybe clearing the garage. I also need to get the kids back on their regular school schedule. My being away much of last week, kind of caused them to slack off. Starting Friday we have a marriage seminar at church followed by special services. The Ensey's are always great speakers and I look forward to hearing them.

This week I will:

1. Clean home and away
2. Attend Marriage Retreat and special services
3. Meet up with Row
4. Take dog to vet
5. Sew
6. Set up school schedule

Time Urgency Syndrome

Mandy set me up with a subscription to Entrepreneur magazine. I received my second issue a couple of days ago. I finally got a chance to read it Sunday morning. There was a specific article that really resonated with me; TickTick Boom!

Time urgency is the constant clock checking, stressed-out, intense feeling of deadline panic. It is a pressure that we put on ourselves and is derived from our own self-induced, unrealistic estimations of what will make us successful.

I suffer from this, sometimes debilitating, ailment. I look at my to-do list and immediately begin to panic. My throat gets tight, my patience withers to non-existent, and I immediately want to give up or throw up or both. I have gone and done it again. I have over promised and now I will proceed to show myself as a sham. And, somehow, I know that I am forgetting something.

The article likens time urgency to intoxication. It hinders the ability to make rational decisions based on sound judgment. Because everything is an emergency, nothing get accomplished; and poor business practices become the norm, as projects are rushed through and mistakes are made.

It is at this point, the article recommends, you should do the last thing you want to do; step away from the task list. Take a few deep breaths; get rid of the clock; realistically prioritize the list and begin again. This time, pick a task and involve yourself completely in that one task. Worrying about the other dozen things will only muddy the creative waters and make you ineffective.

Though stopping the headless-chicken dance is difficult, I have found a great sense of accomplishment in going, step by step, through my lists. I have been surprised how much I can accomplish when my eyes are on the task at hand and not on the clock.

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Happy Birthday to Me!! 33 years young. Feeling good. Working hard. Moving forward.

It is funny that Mandy was waiting for me to post so she could make the 100th entry. She deserves to make that entry, as I hadn’t even noticed we had written so many. I actually periodically check to see if she has posted, because once she does, then I feel the pressure to write one myself. Foolish procrastination. I actually feel pretty good this time as I will be posting numbers 100 and 101, back to back.

I am so proud of where Mandy and I have gotten to this year. There have been some major hurtles, but it feels as though we are both stronger and more confident because of them. A year ago, I never would have seen myself as a Women Work and Community Ambassador, teaching others, being a community leader. Or being asked to be part of a major Bridal EXPO due to my graphic abilities. Having young up-and-comers referred to me for advice and direction would have been unthinkable. A year ago the idea of making DbR a real entity was a dream. I am watching as it solidifies before my eyes and I am in awe.

Mandy had some of the biggest upheavals happen this year, and yet, she has persevered. She had an idea for a business, and due to circumstance, has made it a reality. I know we will end this year with a tremendous momentum that will easily carry us into next year.

Mandy, here’s to 100 posts. Love you, Sis. Thanks for being my companion in this journey together.

I can hardly put together what I have been doing for the past week. It’s been so hectic. I have managed to get my schedule transferred to Google calendar. My poor day planner was running out of room, though I won’t give it up completely. It has become like a security blanket. Since doing that over the weekend, I have been able to get some checks in place so that nobody falls through the cracks. I have completed all of the quotes that I had assigned myself to do, on time. There are a couple more to do, and some quick follow-up emails before the weekend. I finished NMMS logo to the client’s complete satisfaction. Met with two clients last week and had four meetings on Saturday. I am starting to feel like a real business. I am jazzed and full of positive energy.

I didn’t get everything done last week, but have made the conscious decision to move them onto this weeks list, as I think they are important enough.

1. Finish up two more quotes
2. Schedule client meeting for next week
3. Begin design work on a couple of projects
4. Contact non-winners with biz card deal
5. Contact possible bridal expo vendors
6. Get window fixed in house (finally)
7. Prep for next weeks travel and vacation

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I was hoping Row would post first so I could have the privilege of posting our 100th post to 2010 Progress... Oh well. I'll give that honor to you, Row. :)

This week is shaping up to be very busy. Last week I met with a potential client who was ecstatic with the fact that I would come in for a one time cleaning. He loved the idea behind The Occasional Housewife and didn't hesitate to schedule a cleaning. With his wife working as a full time physician, 4 year old twins, his own terrible allergies, and an upcoming event hosted at their house, he needed my help. I viewed the home and gave him my hourly rate and a time quote. I started cleaning this morning. I'll be returning tomorrow to finish the job and then will go back on Friday to do a quick once-over before their event this weekend. I believe this could turn into a more permanent client.

Eric has an interview at a local bank this week. His current contract will be ending on the 15th of this month. I am believing God to open the right door, no matter how much I want it to be the door to this bank. :)

Today is November 1st. We're down to the last two months of 2010. I'm hoping it goes out with a bang and not with regret. I have really enjoyed having the outlet of this blog to keep things in focus and also be able to go back and look at everything that has transpired through the year... good or bad. Here's to making these last 2 months count!

This week I will:

1. Work, work, work, work!
2. Visit with a friend
3. Bake cookies for SS
4. Wood day/ project night
5. Sew

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What a whirlwind of a week! I started the week off with a bang by becoming part of the Northern Maine Bridal EXPO committee. I believe it will be good exposure and good networking. I have created their logotype, which will used on everything from TV to swag bags. I have received good reviews from the rest of the committee as well. Tuesday, I completed the fourth proof, and received the go ahead immediately, with minimal additions, but no design changes. The rest of the week flew by. With Mandy's help, I ended up wrapping up the Vendor Blender stuff late Friday night. I think it was all worth it. Mandy and I spent the day networking and talking with people who were in need of my services. I actually seemed to be the busiest table there. I had visitors stopping at my table as well as most of the other vendors. It was a fantastic first experience at being part of a trade show. I was very glad that Mandy was with me. She was my moral support and subtle "hinter." It was also awesome to have been able to spend some time with the kiddos too.

Sunday was a difficult day. It was a dramatic turn from the positive energy of Saturday. First thing Sunday we lost one of the puppies. It was bound to happen. I was actually surprised that it hadn't happened sooner. It was the littlest of the batch. He just failed. J and I have been struggling with what to do with Sally over the last couple of months. Yesterday the decision was made and Sally-O is no longer in pain. It broke my heart, but J had the difficult job. He placed her with Grampy, Gram and JoJo. I am sad, but as a pet owner, these are the decisions we have to make sometimes. We will not be replacing her.

This week needs to be client focused. I have to follow all of the leads that I made on Saturday, including quotes. I am excited and anxious at the same time. Consistency will be the name of the game.

1. Complete requested quotes and rates
2. Contact non-winners with special offer
3. Rework NMMS logo
4. Meetings with clients Tues & Wed
5. Business photo session & client meeting on Saturday
6. Contact potential vendors for Bridal EXPO
7. Try to make planned meals each evening

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Last week was busy and filled with hard work and fun. The highlight definitely being going to PI and helping Row with her Vendor show. I was very glad that I had the opportunity to go and help her with the preparation, set up, and working the table. I feel it was productive for her business and a great learning experience. Not only did Row get the chance to show off her design work, but she also had several opportunities to network and market face-to-face. I know she'll be busy this week preparing quotes and gaining new clients.

This week I have several things going on as well as several things that need to be done. Today will be focused on cleaning my house and catching up on laundry. Aunt Andrea and John will be stopping by sometime this afternoon. And this evening is the SCA craft night. Tomorrow is 4-H and an Advisor dinner and meeting at UTC. I'll have to pick up the babysitter in the afternoon. Wednesday I need to drop the babysitter back off at school. Mom and Dad will be coming in for coffee in the afternoon and then church that night. Thursday I will probably clean for a client and I also have to get my dog into the vet to see if we can remedy his itching. Friday is wood day at the church and sometime this week I need to sew a skirt for a student at ACA.

So to sum it all up... this week I will:

1. Clean my house
2. Go to craft night
3. Visit with family
4. Go to 4-H
5. Go to meeting at UTC
6. Pick up, drop off babysitter
7. Work
8. Take dog to vet
9. Sew skirt

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Feast or famine. Two weeks ago projects for DbR were almost at a stand still. Last week four new jobs jumped in my lap all at once, plus prepping for a small trade show this coming weekend. I don't know if I am ready for it, but I have to get some visibility. Right now I am hidden in the woods and it's time to put my fears aside and put myself out there. I still have a lot of work to do, but I did get all of my bags labeled and tagged, discount postcards to the printer, give-away cards completed and discussed decorations with Mandy. She is going to be here, so I know everything will go smoothly. And, if it doesn't, she will be here and that makes life better anyway. I could really use her company right now, for sure.

As for client jobs, I got proofs for three of the four jobs done and out, with approval for one complete and to the printers. The fourth was awaiting information, which was received this morning, so proof should be done by Wednesday.

This past weekend proved to be eventful. Daisy had her litter of pups Saturday night. I'm still exhausted and reeling from the all-nighter. The pups seem healthy and Daisy is taking to motherhood a lot easier. I am making an appointment for Jiminy to get fixed ASAP! No more! And we are not keeping one of these pups. I have made my opinion known. Of course they are adorable, fuzzy little things and it will be fun to watch them grow, but I will be glad when the craziness is over.

This week, in addition to spending time with J and Arianna, cleaning my house, cleaning the whelping box 100,000 times and doing 100,000 loads of laundry, and making supper I will...

1. Monday - evening meeting for Feb. Wedding Expo
2. Tuesday - finish fourth proof.
3. Wednesday - sample wedding invitations
4. Thursday - sample greeting cards?
5. Friday - last minute DbR things for trade show & print customer flyers/posters
6. Saturday - setup and trade show all day

i.e. become Super Woman

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I was sick last week. Not much happened. I ran a fever, I coughed, I blew my nose. I still have the lingering symptoms, but hopefully can function better this week. Especially since it will be busy.

This week I will:

1. Can chicken soup
2. Get car worked on
3. Bathe my itchy dog
4. Go to SCA craft night
5. Work
6. Sew skirt
7. Go to PI to see Row and family
8. Post to Broody Bunch

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Hey, Mandy! It's Monday and I'm doing a Progress Report. Unbelievable. I am feeling a little discouraged right now. I'm not sure if it is the time of year, shorter days, colder weather, impending winter, my crappy day job or that I was geared up to do the trade show and then it fell through. I need a clear plan of action. I have been invited to be part of a Bridal Expo in February. I am definitely going to do that. It is far enough in advance that I can be really ready for it.

Positive stuff. I have really started drawing again. I've kind of made it my own personal schooling to draw better with pencil and paper. I started with eyes, then hands, then lips and am finally getting the hang of drawing noses. That was frustrating. I will soon attempt a whole face. It has been good therapy.

I've continued to read A Tale of Two Cities. I'm half way through now. When I'm done I would like to talk to somebody about it. Perhaps I will resurrect the Moody Readers.

I have been asked to be part of a grant committee again. I have an MCWWC ambassador's meeting next week and state wide convention in November coming up. I'm hoping that these connections will begin to show real results soon.

1. Wednesday Grant Committee meeting for MCWWC
2. Complete b.cards for NEP, decal mock-up for EW, cut decals for BM
3. Send out Ella's gift. (I'm such a crappy Auntie.) :-P
4. PAY BILLS
5. Clean my house

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Though I hadn't planned to do much last week, it was very productive. I cleaned, I rested, I canned apple pie filling, and I did some yard work.

I also set up my first meeting with a prospective client for The Occasional Housewife which takes place today at 4:00pm. With the help of Katie, I found a home for the stray kitten who's been hanging out on our front porch, and I located a building for my chicken coop. Not only did I locate it, but I purchased it, had it delivered and set up. So now I have a home for my chickens! I also have a good lead on some chain link fence that will hopefully be purchased and picked up this evening. And on top of all of that, we picked up the hardware and tools needed to fix up the swing set for the kids. Half of it is up and functioning already.

We also went to the ReStore this week to check things out. What a fabulous store! It's a store for Habitat for Humanity. They take donated used or slightly damaged building materials, furniture, hardware and such from the local population as well as from stores like Home Depot and Lowes. They resell the goods for 50% or more off retail price and all the proceeds go to Habitat for Humanity. Doors for $3-$10. Shutters for $3.99 a pair. Ceramic tile for .75 /sq.ft. Furniture and appliances for $10 -$25. We will definitely be visiting again.

This week will be productive as well, I hope. I plan to paint the chicken coop. I found Oops paint at Walmart for 50% off and it's the color that I wanted. I have at least one skirt to make this week, and a couple more soon. I will be meeting a potential client and hopefully scheduling her in. I need to make a trip to the bank, hopefully open an account at the credit union, and get the car into the mechanic. Busy. But I really hope I can get it all done.

This week I will:

1. Sew skirt
2. Paint chicken coop
3. Meet client
4. Take car to mechanic
5. Open bank account
6. Find fencing, windows, flooring for chicken coop

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Ya, I know it is Thursday and the progress report should have been posted days ago, but.... the nasty procrastination bug has struck again. I feel like I'm being pulled in a hundred directions and nobody is getting exactly what they need from me. Hah! Including me. So, in response I'm slowing down. Makes sense, yes? No, of course not.

I actually don't think I'm slowing down, but maybe treading water instead of swimming. I am hoping to be part of a trade show this weekend. If everything works out I will be one of many exhibitors at the Forum for the Fall and Winter Expo. It was short notice, so I am not completely ready, but the exposure is worth it. I want to have a raffle for free business card design and 250 cards to try to bring in some potential client information. Probably a lot of them will be junk, but there is bound to be a few good leads in there too. I'm waiting on the word from Matt as to whether I will be joining him at a table or not. I should know today.

I have also teamed up with Samantha Marie Photography to do photo Christmas cards. We are going to start that marketing in the next few days. I would like to see a nice strong response from that. I need to be making about $100 per day, five days a week to be able to get done work. It really isn't that difficult a goal if I look at business card designs or logo work. It is really only a couple of hours of work a day. I can do it. How? How do I get my name out there and make people want what I have. I guess it is time to start advertising.

I have my new driveway and we painted the outside of the shop barn red two weekends ago. So the renovations for this year, are done. The siding and landscaping will have to be put off until the spring. I have heat in my shop now too. Jay plumbed the propane tank into my fireplace. It keeps the shop at a beautiful temperature. Of course it has been warm the last few days, but I think it is going to be wonderful this winter. It should be efficient too.

Jay and I have also decided to get a pellet stove to supplement our heat in the house. Kerosene is so expensive and we use quite a bit of it. Jay has done a lot of research and talking with Matt to get just the right one that will be efficient on pellets, run long enough without being tended and won't cost and arm and a leg. Actually he found one through a local business that is getting ready to shut it's doors. Bargain...

...And I'm 100 pages into A Tale of Two Cities by Charles Dickens. :-)

This list will cover the rest of this week and next week:

1. Actively search out new clients, hopefully starting with the Expo.
2. Design some Christmas cards ahead
3. Complete a couple of client jobs, bill another.
4. Try to decide on a name for DbR
5. Clean my house. :-P

That's a good start. Hoping to do more, but will see about time.

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It's Monday. I feel like I should be doing something. I was so busy last week (mostly with preparations for Ella's birthday party) that I feel like I've forgotten something today. I can't imagine what though.

The birthday party went very well. Ella was a princess and in her glory with little girls running around wanting to play with her and take part in the activities. We made fans from paper doilies, had a dress-up relay race, and feather boas for all the little girls. Two of her friends spent the night before the party. It was exciting for her but very tiring. By the time things were winding down Saturday afternoon, little Ella was ready for it to all be over.

Sunday afternoon we took Ella out shopping with the birthday money she received. She is a very good, efficient shopper. Before the day was over, she had spent every last cent, but I was pleased with her purchases. She bought 2 new shirts and 2 new skirts, an outfit and accessories pack for her new baby doll, and a BIG pack of gum (her favorite past time).

So, today I'll be doing some laundry, dishes, and canning. I picked apples last week with Katie and the kids. I've got to put up some more apple sauce and apple pie filling.

On a side note: I've had two contacts this week for The Occasional Housewife. It's a good feeling to see real progress on something that was just a concept a few months ago.

This week I will:

1. Rest
2. Clean
3. Can
4. Do yard work

pro-gress (n. prog'res) 1. A forward or onward movement.

Webster is obsolete. It must be the end of the world.

I have been thinking a lot about 2010 Progress. We're almost in the 4th quarter of the year, fall officially starts tomorrow, and it's getting cooler outside. Alas, 2010 is nearing the end.

When I think of where I started in January and what my mindset was, I really think that my quest for progress has turned into regression. In these past months I have found that I have been journeying backward more than forward. My personal progress has been a quest of how to live simpler. I want to break away from the ebb and flow of every day life as we know it here in America and carve out an existence in God's country like the pioneers did.

Geoffrey asked me once if I could live in any era of time, when would it be? I want to be Laura Ingalls Wilder. No, I want to be her ma. Those were the days when your talents and hobbies were all centered around survival. When picking out fabric for a new dress was exciting! and harvest was a community affair. That's when people played instruments, sang, and told stories for entertainment.

I guess what I'm striving for is fulfillment at my work. I want to work for the betterment of my family, not for a paycheck. The Occasional Housewife is work that I enjoy doing, especially because it helps other people, but honestly, it's a side business. It keeps the money trickling in.

Some things that I've gone back to this year, particularly this summer, are making bread, sewing clothes, raising chickens, gardening, canning, even hanging clothes out on the line to dry. With

the cool nights, I'm longing to start quilting, knitting and crocheting again. There is great satisfaction in having a hand in the making and running of a household. And there is even more satisfaction in knowing that your family appreciates it!

A few nights ago we all sat down to homemade sourdough bread spread with homemade grape jelly. I picked, squeezed, cooked, and canned that jelly myself. I fed the sourdough starter and kneaded the dough for the bread myself. Maybe it's just me. Probably it is. But I love it!

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This week has a jump on me already. Yesterday the family and I went to the Farmington Agricultural Fair. We like to go every year to give the kids a chance to learn about our local agriculture here in Maine. There were bee keepers, and blacksmiths, spinners and builders. We saw tractors, horses, sheep and chickens. We milked a cow and sampled fresh butter. Homemade applesauce and fresh cider samples were available. It's a fun day and a learning experience.

Since Monday has passed already, I have a shorter week to accomplish the things that I have planned. I have Ella's birthday tea party planned for Saturday afternoon. It will require a lot of advance planning to be sure everything runs smoothly. I need to pick up ingredients for the snacks and beverages, as well as prizes, crafts, and favors. Of course I also need to get my house in order. The laundry is stacking up and the dust is accumulating.

I've been gathering info on building a coop and I think I've found someone to build it for me. I'm weighing the cost but I think it's my best option.

This week I will:

1. Prepare for Ella's B-day party
2. Finish laundry
3. Cleaning job
4. Go to bank/ close checking account

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It seems summer is wrapping up and harvest is now well underway. I've been spending the majority of my time canning the harvest for winter and preparing for colder months. My friend Katie has been a huge blessing to me this year by teaching me to can. I think of all the years that I could have been doing it. The money that I could have saved by putting away our own food. The crops are so bountiful this year that I'm jealous of those who were able to have a garden. Because of our unexpected move, I missed the growing season. However, I have put a great deal of effort into planning for next year and am grateful to those who are willing to share their harvest with me.

I received my magnetic business cards that Row designed for me. They are awesome! I'm very pleased with how they turned out and also with the response that I get from those who receive them. Row did an awesome job working with me to get the design just the way I wanted it, and she had great insight on the colors and fonts that would best fit the look and feel of my business. Everyone asks who designed my business cards and I'm more than happy to tell them about DbR!

You can quote me on that, Row! :)

This week I will:

1. Can Stew, Carrots, Tomatoes, Grape jelly
2. Clean bathroom
3. Catch up on laundry
4. Go to Lamoine Park w/ Sunday school
5. Work

Progress Report 36

My dear sister is so much better at keeping up with the blogging than I. So I will attempt to add an insight to my progress report this week to make up for the lack of numbers.

I used to feel free when I sat down to write, but now I worry about what I'm saying and how I'm saying what I'm saying. I read an article just recently, "10 things about kids from which entrepreneurs can learn," that reminds me of some of the things I have forgotten as I've grown up. I used to write and draw all of the time, for myself. I have started sketching again. That was a surprise result of starting DbR. I have found that I haven't lost all of my skills in that area. So much is practice and looking at objects as only so many shapes and shades of color. Uncomplicate the complicated. It's the small, the simple that can make the biggest impact sometimes. Saying thank you, offering a helping hand... I want DbR to be known for the added touches.

So much of my lists lately have been based on what I have to do for clients. This week, though I do have clients that I need to attend to, I also need to catch up on my housework.

1. Recover from terrible cold
2. Clean my house, dust, mop, windows... begin the fall/winter prep
3. Come up with a great idea for the Fall/Winter Expo
   
4. Client jobs
5. Keep reading and writing new and insightful things
   

Heatwave, Hurricanes, Raining Cats and Dogs

I guess you can say we've been having some odd weather, especially for Maine. This past week has hit 100 degrees repeatedly. The days have been torture and the nights unbearable. We even had some of the local schools close early due to the heat! Snow, maybe. But closing because of extreme heat in Maine is a phenomenon.

We also have a hurricane on its way. It should hit in about 3 hours. I guess it's actually a tropical storm now. Tropical storm Earl. The wind has already picked up and the sun is thankfully finally covered with clouds. After keeping the windows closed for almost the entire week to keep the heat out, I've now opened every window in the house to

invite the breeze through.

We are expecting some strong winds and heavy rains with the

ensuing storm front. But it started early last night. Raining cats and dogs. Well, cats anyway. I stepped out on the porch to let the dog out when I heard a loud yowl. Dapper barked and skittered back into the house like the sissy dog he is. The yowling continued though from a different position in the night. It sounded like a kitten so I stepped out to see if I could locate it in the dark. Sure enough, a small, long haired, gray kitten huddled in the bushes. Meowing with every breath. I tried to coax her for a while but she was unsure and would run by me, coming close but not stopping. A bowl of milk wasn't tempting enough, but a can of tuna couldn't be resisted. By inching myself closer in the dark and letting her sample the tuna, I was able to grab her and bring her in.

I guess she's about 10 weeks old. She's a ball of gray fluff, though badly matted with burdocks now. She hissed and clawed and hid from us in the screen porch, so we left her there for the night with the rest of the tuna can, the milk, and some water. She cried most of the night. This morning I picked her up without much trouble. She liked the cuddling and soon relaxed and purred loudly in my lap. We introduced her to Dapper, who was very jealous and curious about this bundle of fur. The kitten rubbed on his face and he lapped her ear.

We are looking for her owner, but don't hold out much hope of finding someone to claim her. We will be placing her in someone else's home as soon as possible. Though the kids are enthralled with the kitten and have tentatively named her Misty, we just can't have cats in our home. So, she's up for adoption.

Progress Report 34

I'm starting out this week with a bang! I was up early this morning and cut out two jumper patterns and material. I hope to spend some time every morning sewing to finish these uniforms before the week's end. I also put together two stands for Eric's office and am trying to get the kids back on track for their school work.

Last week I was able to bring in the dresser for my bedroom, clean out the garage a bit, pick all the pears, and an appointment was set with the mechanic. I spent a lot of time last week at Katie's house canning pears and tomatoes. We also picked grapes which we hope to turn to jelly this week.

I bought my own canner last week and had Katie show me how to use it. I'm very excited to be able to do my own canning at home. Eric has already bought ingredients to can chili. Yum! I also made some sourdough starter so I can make my own bread again.

I've been in contact occasionally with Row too. Business seems to be going well and I'm proud of her pursuit of knowledge in Business Ownership 101. The recent additions to her website have been great and, I'm sure, will be an asset to her as well. I hope this week offers her opportunity to forge ahead in progress.

This week I will:

1. Work on SS room
2. Can chili
3. Make Lemonade (homemade... the best!)
4. Make bread
5. Make jelly
6. Catch up on laundry
7. Sign kids up for 4-H

Progress Report 33

Last week was difficult to say the least. With the illnesses of Strep Throat and Hand, Foot, and Mouth Disease to contend with, I had my hands full. Monday night, we had the kids to the doctor and got antibiotics for the Strep. However, there is no real treatment for HFMD. Which turns out that's what Ella had. The antibiotic kept her from getting the Strep but it didn't keep Geoffrey from getting HFMD. He came down with it on Wednesday on top of the Strep infection. Ella is nearly all better, with only a few blisters left, most of which were on her hands. Geoffrey has several painful blisters on his feet that are very uncomfortable when walking.

The most difficult part of HFMD is that beyond the initial fever and sore throat, the kids feel fine (except for uncomfortable blisters). They want to play and go to town and do the usual things that they normally do. However HFMD is highly contagious so they must be kept home to prevent infecting other children. We did make one exception and allowed them to go to Fort Knox with their grandparents on Saturday. At their own risk, of course.

Rowena and her family made a quick stop her Saturday to drop off the kid's swing set on their way to a family party. I'm always glad to see them. Even if it's for just a few minutes. The swing set is in need of some repair, so that will be a project for this week since it is disassembled at the moment. Thankfully, we found enough lumber in the burn pile behind the property to make the repairs.

Last Thursday was also my last day working for my employer in Carmel. My three years cleaning her home has been an invaluable experience. I've learned much about housekeeping and have many amusing stories to tell. With a shift in their home economy, I was no longer needed. Thankfully, Row has finished my business cards just in time for me to go find some new clients!

Getting done with my position at that residence didn't bother me much. We were smart enough to not have a budget that depended on that income. Many of the extras that we enjoyed will be cut back, but it won't hurt too badly. I'm actually excited about not having to go to work today, and taking some extra time to put into my own home. Fall is quickly approaching and there is still a lot of unpacking and offloading to be done. And I still have one regular client to keep some cash flowing.

This week I will:

1. Clean out garage
2. Pick pears
3. Prepare for yard sale
4. Fix swing set
5. Bring in dresser
6. Call mechanic

Progress Report 32

What a week! KPK is now over but it was so much fun! Unfortunately, several of the children fell ill at the end of the week. Geoffrey and Ella being two of the many. It appears Strep Throat and Hand, Foot, Mouth Disease are going around. Geoffrey tested positive for Strep but the doctor suggested we treat them both since Ella had some symptoms, including a fever of over 103 degrees and sore throat. Both of those symptoms are also symptoms of Hand, Foot, Mouth Disease and the mysterious blister on her hand two days ago makes me wonder. In any case, treatment is under way.

This week will be mostly recovery... from illness and camp. I'm in the process of getting the laundry caught up, and the house picked up. We went to the library yesterday as well as helped pack up camp items at the church. Hopefully we will get an appointment with the mechanic to get Eric's car looked at, and then mine. I'm also working on getting a yard sale ready. I'm supposed to do it this weekend, but we'll see as the week progresses. I have to work Wednesday and Thursday. I need to start sewing some school uniforms and there are a few other things around the house that I'd like to get started on. I'm not pushing it though.

This week I will:

1. Call mechanic
2. Prepare for yard sale
3. Work
4. Start school uniforms
5. Paint fence
6. Hang clothesline

Progress Report 32

I worked really hard this week. I stayed focused and really moved through a lot of projects and deadlines. I'm actually very proud of my accomplishments this past week. From the client meeting on Wednesday, I've secured another job. I have gotten final approval on two others, so now they are in the printing phase, which includes Mandy's cards. I also completed an Etsy web banner and have been asked about a branding project. I did some last minute race car decals for a friend of J's and got another small decal job for a radio car going to England for an international contest. That's right. DbR is going international! haha

This coming week is going to be very busy too. I have two meetings Monday afternoon, which will determine whether I begin printing invitations this week. I need to complete the flyer printing and start cutting decals for the Houlton Humane Society. I also need to get started on the proofs for the new invitation job I have.

1. Keep plugging away at the client jobs.
2. Finish Arianna's school shopping. (She begins on Wednesday)
3. Two client meetings on Monday, Maine Ctr for Women Work & Community meeting on Thursday.
4. Headed to Bangor on Saturday. Sorry, Mandy, only a quick trip this time, but will be dropping off the kids swing set.
   

Progress Report 31

Last week went well. It was very busy, but knowing that and not expecting too much from myself, I accomplished everything on my list.

Today is Monday and our KPK activities were supposed to kick off early this morning. However, we were headed to the coast and it is raining and expected to rain with thundershowers all day. I thought about going to work since I'm available. But instead I'll clean my own house. This weekend was a whirlwind with the family reunion in Dexter on Saturday, Sunday school, and KPK prep on Sunday as well as the making and selling of over 10 dozen cookies. (The cookie sale went very well. The kid's made over $30 in a night.) So my house looks like a whirlwind also. Eric's mother and her German exchange student are coming to visit today. So I guess I'll stay home and clean up a bit.

Last week, Row finalized my business card for the Occasional Housewife. I can't wait to get them in my hand! They look fantastic, and I love that they are custom and no one else out there has my same business card design. Eric has been working on getting my website ready, so that customers can find me on the web.

This week I will:

1. Attend all KPK activities and services
2. Plant perennials
3. Empty hanging baskets
4. Organize desk
5. Create new goal charts for kids
6. Laundry
7. Dishes

Progress Report 31

This week has been a whirlwind of activity. And of course very little has gone how I had planned it, some good and some not so good. I was inundated with new jobs this week, which is fantastic! However, it is a case of "be careful what you wish for." I had to spend a few hours each evening at the studio working, which left other things at home neglected. I impressed myself on how productive I was during that time working for DbR. It was as it should be, plugging away, checking things off. It felt great!

We had a terrible rain storm this past week and found that the roof in my studio leaks like a sieve. Luckily the water came in and pooled on and around my work bench and not my equipment or computer. But, this means that the plan to go to my family reunion in Dexter has been preempted by putting a new roof on the studio. The worst part about missing the reunion, is missing Mandy and not getting to meet our new niece. The rest, I think, I can manage without. I will be seeing Mandy in a couple of weeks when we go to Bangor for a weekend. It's just a matter of waiting.

1. Keep checking client projects off the list. Lots of printing to be done this week.
2. Client meeting on Wednesday. Still got lots of prep work to do.
3. Catch up on laundry.
4. Bake two apple pies and a raspberry pie.
5. Next Saturday is J's family reunion.

It's going to be a busy week.

Progress Report 30

You win some, you lose some.

I didn't do so hot last week with my lists. Other things kept popping up. I'm hesitant to carry over things from last week's list that didn't get done because I know that this week is going to be busy. My first clue? I spent 5 1/2 hrs at work today. Sigh. That's a long time to be cleaning and scrubbing. Now I'm behind on my own housework.

My biggest goal for this week is to get my lesson finalized for Kids Praise Kamp. I'm teaching Saturday's lesson in front of 25 kids and the entire congregation. I want it to be simple but captivating.

Saturday is our family reunion. Bad timing as usual. It is the last day I have to help and prepare for Kids Praise Kamp. The reunion isn't very important to me, but it's an opportunity to see some immediate family that I miss terribly. Even for just an afternoon.

I've also (God help me) taken on the responsibility of sewing 4 school jumpers and 2 skirts for students at ACA. School starts in September. My kids on the other hand have already started homeschooling. Not really my choice, but theirs. I finally got around to ordering their school curriculum and when it arrived the kids harassed me until I let them start. It's a good thing that they like it so much. Geoffrey is likely to finish 4th grade before winter is over. Ella moves at her own pace as well. But that's the benefit of homeschooling.

This week I will:

1. Finalize my KPK lesson
2. Pull together SS lesson
3. Laundry
4. Contact SS kids

I guess I'll leave it at that. There's a lot more that I want to do, but it's not likely to happen.

Reflection

I've been thinking over the last six months and though it doesn't feel like it's been long at all, it also got me thinking of all the changes that have transpired in that time.

I am still optimistic about 2010 and with the exception of our foreclosure (which was huge in its own right) it has been a great year. Some things you control and some things you don't. I am convinced that the things you can't control are meant to make you better, and the things you can control are up to you to make you better or worse.

Last year just felt completely out of control for me. And though I didn't like a minute of the discomfort and distress, I can see now that it's changed me for the better. I've learned some valuable life lessons in that time, some of which I've already shared with Row. I think I've realized just a little more of my potential and that makes me happy.

In reflection of the past six months, I went back and reread several of our first posts in January and February. I wanted to rekindle that driving force that seems to show up just after Christmas. That New Year Fresh Start excitement that consumes us every year. I think I've found the source, but it's not grandiose or even attractive.

It all comes down to our perception of self-worth and satisfaction with ourselves. I want to be more, do more, have more so that I'll be happy with myself and others will be happy with me too. I'm so dissatisfied with myself that every year I feel the need to become more than I am. And that's not wrong. But just because I am more, do more and have more, doesn't mean I'm happy. I have to say that over the last 18 months I've learned that what makes me happy is peace. Peace at home, peace of mind, and peace in God. My ultimate goal for the lists I've compiled through the year would be that completing them would bring peace in at least one of those three areas.

So even though it's not New Year's Day, here's to a new commitment, a new focus, and a new me! In celebration of the changes in the last six months, I've updated my profile picture! Knowing that Row has also seen a lot of change, I encourage her to do the same. I love you, Sis. This year wouldn't have been the same without you. Don't give up now, we've got another 23 weeks to go!

Progress Report 29

After 6 months, I think I've finally learned the art of writing lists. Maybe I'm just being self-righteous, but I accomplished everything on my list last week and it feels pretty good. I know that I have learned to be more realistic in my expectations of myself so maybe I'm making things too easy on myself. But, truth be told, I like knowing that I've marked everything off.

Last week I was able to unpack a lot of my office/craft items. I feel much more at ease in my home now that I know where to find a safety pin or a crochet hook. I organized the kids' room as much as possible and did a little decorating to try to bring it together. And, I have a nice pile of Yard Sale stuff accumulating. It's a slow process and ongoing, but my goal is to have a yard sale before the end of August.

This week I plan to:

1. Help w/ KPK (Sunday school)
2. Sort through more boxes/ yard sale prep
3. Pay rent (I'm afraid I'll forget)
4. Clean the bathroom
5. Make appt. to get car fixed
6. Clean deck/ porch
7. Dust the basement (ick!)

Progress Report 27 & 28

This week is practically over but I did get a lot done.

Aside from working, we had a barbecue Monday night with friends using my new grill.

Tuesday we made a trip to Farmington to pick up a few items that got carted down there during our move.

We returned home Wednesday afternoon. I then picked up a wardrobe at Big Lots for the kids' room. My friend helped me the rest of the afternoon putting it together.

Thursday was back to work and then swimming at Katie's. We picked strawberries at the local farm before coming home. Friends from Tennessee arrived late and crashed on the floor for the night. They left the next day after breakfast.

Friday was more work in the morning, grocery shopping in the afternoon, laundry and putting my park bench back together. Then a birthday party at a friends house until late.

Today is Saturday and it's about 100 degrees outside. We've managed to keep the temp at about 76 in the house, so it's a good day to stay in and do some housework.

Next week I plan to:

1. Unpack some of my craft things
2. Organize kids' room
3. Plant my perennials
4. Get ready for yard sale
5. Start planning Ella's b-day party (it's early, I know)

New List - July 2010

1. Have a tea party

2. Fly

3. Have a yard sale

4. Get deck stained

5. Lose 15 lbs

6. Give blood

7. Pay off my car

8. Hike the Ecotat gardens

9. Shop in Freeport

10. Start an IRA or get $1000 in savings

Progress Report 26 - Half Way?!

How can we be half way through the year already?! Unbelievable. I was just looking over my list from the beginning of the year and have realized how much my priorities have changed in just six months. I am also feeling a bit forlorn at the thought that maybe I overreached in my list. Perhaps I have only lost my focus, but how to get it back, is the question. I don't feel as though my desires are any different, but the energy it takes to keep up the pace seems to be leaving me.
What have I accomplished in six months from my 2010 list?

1. Write a business plan for Designed by Row - I took a couple of seminars which pointed me in the right directions, but haven't actually done a formal plan. I have also read a couple of books that, I feel, were more of a benefit to the actual running of DbR.
   
2. Plan a trip to Scotland for spring 2011 - Haven't done a thing. Too depressing at the moment. This type of trip will probably have to be put off for a few years.
   
3. Complete 2 semesters of classes - I think I have killed this idea. I spent a year trying to complete one semester and didn't hit that goal. Now I am overdue and screwed.
   
4. Complete renovations of studio and move in - Interior renovations are complete and I am working out of the studio now. The outside has not been done yet, but hopefully before winter.
   
5. Pay off my computer - not even close
   
6. Pay off my credit card - nope
   
7. Take a family vacation - It's not looking good for this one either, but perhaps late summer.
   
8. Plant cedar hedges - Not happening this year.
   
9. Bring in regular freelance or web income - What I failed to realize when I was writing this list, was that if this one came to fruition, I would have very little time for everything else. However, I have had some regular work coming in. Not a lot, but it is steady.
   
10. Wainscoting and new paint for my kitchen - I definitely have not given up on this one. It takes money, which has been a bit hard to come by lately.
    

My goal for the next half of the year is to try to stay focused. I am too easily discouraged and part of growing my box is to break away from old habits that hold me back. The negative self-talk has got to stop. Life is what I make it. Obviously I need to get back to posting more often as it will help keep moving forward and not just treading water.

Progress Report 26 - Half Way

We are now half way through 2010. It's time to re-evaluate and re-commit. I've spent the last hour going over my original list. The recent events have effectively messed up my list. I've tried to reorganize it, but haven't yet come up with new items to fill in the blank spots. I'll have to give it some more thought this week.

This week I plan to:

1. Take Ella and friend shopping
2. Start weeding around house
3. Lori's birthday party
4. Pick up patio chairs
5. Rework 2010 list
6. Prepare for yard sale

Progress Report 25

I am back home again and back to the grind. Our trip to Las Vegas was fabulous and memorable! I'm so glad we had the opportunity to go. But honestly, I was desperately glad to get back home to my kids and try to build a normal lifestyle again after the upheaval of the last few weeks.

Our new house is starting to feel like home now. Thanks in part to Row who was very kind to unpack most of our books and arrange the bookshelves while we were away. It gives the house a lived-in feel. One major project this week will be to unpack some more boxes and arrange some rooms.

I'm heading back to work in just a few minutes. I feel tired just thinking about it. But perhaps this afternoon I can take a nap. My schedule has been affected by the time change and has been out straight since our arrival back home. Catching up on some rest will also be a priority this week. Thankfully, I am now in my summer schedule for work and have tomorrow off. I can sleep in and then work on my own house. :)

This week I will:

1. Sleep!
2. Unpack boxes
3. Arrange kids' room
4. New budget
5. Grocery shopping
6. New chore chart
7. Take Ella and friend shopping

Progress Report 24

From sunny Las Vegas, Nevada! This week, though a working week for Eric is also a vacation for us. Eric's business conference in Las Vegas gave us an opportunity to take a trip, see some sites, and take in some shows. We are staying at the Luxor Hotel, which is a large, black glass pyramid.The weather is currently 87 degrees and sunny.

Our flight to Nevada was exciting but uneventful. It was my first time in the air, but I was fascinated rather than nervous. The tops of the clouds were beautiful and the terrain was awesome from that height. Houses were tiny dots and rivers were just lines in the trees. Whole mountain ranges were visible and entire cities were mapped out before us. As we left Atlanta, heat lighting flashed in the clouds but the sailing was smooth. I was able to doze on and off.

Our layover in Atlanta, GA was not a layover at all, but just enough time to disembark from one airplane, walk half a mile to the other side of the airport, and board our next flight. Other than only eating airline pretzels and drinking 2 oz of Coke on the planes for supper, we enjoyed our travel. We arrived at our hotel this morning shortly after 1:00 am PST. Which was 4:00 EST! It was a late night but the extra 3 hours gave us time to recoup some rest.

We've had a relaxing day so far. We found the food court in the hotel, got some breakfast, walked around out side for a few minutes and checked out the gift shops. With the casino in the center of the hotel, salesmen in every aisle trying to push vouchers, and tourist pricing at ever place of business, it's a full time job to try to keep money in our pockets. So far, so good.

Eric is putting in a couple hours of work now, and I'm thinking of my kids. I'm glad they are doing well and having fun with Auntie and Arianna back home. Again, I'm thankful for my sister. She's been a rock in sifting sand.

Viva Las Vegas!

Progress Report 24 (sans list)

I may not have posted a list recently, but my weekly planner had quite a bit on it. I have had multiple projects for DbR flowing through these past couple of weeks. It is very satisfying to be able to come home and work for me. This week is looking much like last week in that my list involves mostly client work. However, I need to add some house cleaning to it. :-P Arianna is at her mother's, so it is a good time to take care of it.

On another note, I am so thankful that Mandy and her family were able to rent the house they looked at. It was a roller-coaster of a week for them. I am glad that J and I were able to be there to help. I couldn't imagine being anywhere else when my sister was in need. I will be spending the first part of next week at her house watching the kids and helping to unpack a few things. I'm looking forward to the break from MMA, though feel slightly guilty that J will be home on Father's Day by himself. I will need to make sure he has everything he needs before I leave on Saturday, which means grocery shopping and some meal prep.

Time to go make supper. I'll post an actual list this weekend for week 25.

Progress Report 23

Progress. Two steps forward and one step back is still progress. It's slow and frustrating, but it's still progress.

Since finding out that we were losing our house and would have to move, we were served with a notice that said we had exactly 48 hours to vacate the property. After such time, we would not be allowed back on the property and anything left behind would no longer be ours. After the shock wore off and panic set it, I called my sister. Row and J made the immediate decision to drive 150 miles to rescue us. Eric's parents and sister also came to help as well as my friend, Katie. It was amazing how everyone came together and worked to move a household. Boxes and newspaper showed up, trailers and strapping. Even a storage unit was located.

I can honestly say that Row and Jay were my heroes that day. Row kept me sane and just worked without being asked. Jay took the initiative and hauled out everything of value; anything that could be sold to help us out. When it was all said and done, the house was an empty shell. Katie also was quick to help and even offer us a place to stay in a camper at her house.

On the bright side, we were able to rent a house minutes down the road from our previous residence on Friday. The house is beautiful and spacious, even if it's smaller. The kids have a yard to play in and we were able to keep the dog. The chickens are being taken care of by Katie for now. We are hoping to get permission to keep them at our new place. We have two apple trees, and two pear trees. There is a screen porch and a large deck. We have a full basement and attic as well as an attached garage.

Yesterday, we rented a 16ft moving truck and a bunch of guys from our church came out to help move. In two trips they moved everything from storage into the garage at our new home. A couple ladies helped me clean cabinets and arrange the furniture. We were able to unpack most of the kitchen and Eric set up his office enough to get back to work.

The last week has felt like a month and my legs are tired. Friday we are headed to Canobie Lake Park, and Sunday it's off to Las Vegas! I hope I can find my clothes before then...

Progress Report 22

Last week I was able to cross several things off of my list for the year. I paid off my car, hiked the Ecotat and lost my house (which effectively marked one thing off of my 2010 list and 3 off my 30 Things list.) Strangely all three things bring a sense of excitement. Having my car paid off frees more of my income for other things. The Ecotat was beautiful and refreshing. Definitely worth a second visit. And moving always brings new adventures.

Since moving has become an immediate priority, it will become top of my list over the next few weeks. Every room must be thoroughly sorted and packed. A yard sale is a must, some things will go into storage, and a lot of preparations must be made in finding our next home, and possible our pets' next home. In the midst of all this, I am taking a trip to Canobie Lake Park with my SS class, going to Las Vegas, NV, attending a ladies conference, grading school papers, working and preparing for a yard sale. So without further ado... my list.

Next week I will:

1. Pick up boxes
2. Grade 4 subjects
3. Submit state school forms
4. Clean out garage for yard sale
5. Look for houses to rent
6. Make some phone calls

Progress Report 21

We had a good week last week. The kids finished up their 4-H season with their play. I was able to work some extra hours. I really feel like I've strengthened my character by reading books on business. It makes me look at work as something more than a job. It's an extension of who I am and what I want to become.

We had a good trip north to see the family. It was really too quick and I didn't get a chance to visit with everyone that I wanted to but it was good to see everyone anyway. The kids had a great time! We also saw some wildlife on the highway. A black bear on the way north and 3 deer on the way home.

This week I need to concentrate on getting the garden in and grading all of Geoffrey's schoolwork. We are officially in summer vacation mode. All though, it seems I'll be busier than ever with everything we have planned for the next few months. I'm going to try to enjoy it as much as I can.

This week I will:

1. Plant garden
2. Grade at least 3 subjects
3. New budget/ bank visit
4. Pay off car!
5. Go to Ecotat!
6. Go to coast.

Progress Report 20

Last week was a very busy week, but it felt productive as well. I completed or made an honest effort to complete everything on my list. I got the magnets delivered, the business card designed and out for proof, an estimate out on the lettered sign (waiting on customer), the breast cancer decals and Maltese cross are both designed and waiting on material (should be here tomorrow), almost done the E-Myth and on CD 12 of Dave Ramsey. I also made a couple of those phone calls that have been hanging over my head and scheduled the engagement shoot for July 10. On top of that, I lettered J's truck with the name of his new Maine Guide business. Maybe the time management workshop helped a little. :-)

1. Create a household budget
2. Finish the E-Myth
3. Listen to more Dave Ramsey
4. Get lots of rest, drink OJ and get over this cold before all the family gets here for Saturday's Moody picnic. Can't wait to see Mandy and the kids.
5. Of course there are DbR related things I need to attend to this week as well.

So, it's off to bed with me for the afternoon. We'll see how the week progresses.

Progress Report 20

The end of last week was a whirlwind of church services. We were busy between services trying to get a bite to eat, running the roads and getting ready for the next service. What a blessing to hear from God so many times and know that you are heading in the right direction! It gives me strength to keep marching on.

This week will also be busy but for different reasons. Geoffrey and Ella have their last 4-H meeting of the season on Tuesday and their final drama program Friday evening. Wednesday evening is the awards ceremony for the Christian school and of coarse I'm back to work every morning and a couple of afternoons. We will also be making a trip to Aroostook for a family Memorial Day picnic.

This week I will:

1. Catch up on laundry
2. Catch up on dishes
3. Clean out refrigerator
4. Clean bathroom
5. 4-H events
6. Plant garden?
7. Memorial day picnic

The heart of business

I've been reading the E-Myth Revisited and had a monstrous epiphany. I know what is wrong with my day job. The man who started the business, who had the dream and the vision is no longer working there. He retired a few months ago and things seemed to have gone down hill since. The financial side was always rough, but the spirit is gone now too. The moral is in the dumps and doesn't show any sign of turning upward. I realized that the reason things seem so terrible, is that the passion behind the company is gone. It is now being run by "businessmen" who are all about the business of business and have forgotten that real people with heart, soul and spirit work in those buildings. So in spite of the fact that there are 400 bodies inhabiting the shops for eight and a half hours a day, the space feels empty.

Some of the blame must fall on the same man who had the dream, however. He was folly in his belief that the friends he hired to work with him in the beginning would see his vision through without the direction of a solid, written plan. After 12 years in business, I watch every day as more operating procedures are put into place, more policies are written scrutinizing every little thing employees do, oppressing them instead of encouraging them. Instead of going back and starting from the beginning, they keep throwing paperwork at it, hoping it will get better. It hasn't and it won't. There is always hope, however with the mindset of the current management, there is little. A prime example of what not to do.

Dirt

It's the title of a song by Mary Mary. Its about a garden and how beautiful it looks, but underneath it all is just dirt. A line in the song catches my attention every time.

Life at times can make you weak, and I have cried myself to sleep. 'Cause reality makes you cry, but the truth will dry your eyes. Things: they just can't stay the same when you work hard and you pray. It may be kind of tough now but the point I'm trying to make is we all need a little bit of dirt to grow.

Two things that will get you through life's struggles every time! Hard work and Prayer.

It seems that these two work together exclusively. I've known people who work hard every day of their life and never seem to get ahead. Then I've known people who are constantly praying for God to get them out of their mess but don't think they need to do anything about it personally. Neither approach seems to work very well independently.

Since the beginning of May when I started thinking of going into business for myself, I've been working hard at learning how to have a great business. I have changed my mindset about my housekeeping job since the beginning of the month and started thinking of my employer as a client instead of my boss. It's funny, but I work harder knowing that my reputation is now on the line rather than just my employment. I've been thinking of how my work can be a witness of my integrity and my beliefs. Today I was rewarded with a 10% raise!

Work hard. Pray.

The Peeps Are Here

My chicks were delivered yesterday! There was a lot of excitement as the kids rushed to hold one and we cleaned up the chick feeder and waterer. The neighbor girl came over to see the chicks and they all deliberated over names. Unfortunately we had one chick DOA. It was one of the Barred Plymouth Rocks. So instead of 8 we have 7. Two Buff Orpingtons, two Barred Plymouth Rocks and three Easter Eggers. They went right to the water and chick food. They ate and drank until they were content to settle under the heat of the 100watt light bulb. Dapper is unsure of the peeping but seems to ignore them mostly.

While they are small, the chicks are very unobtrusive and need little care. Fresh water and more food, and clean bedding ever couple of days. They are in a plastic tote in the living room for now, but will move to the garage after a couple of weeks.

Let the adventures begin!

Progress Report 19

So this may not be my 19th report, but it is the end of week 19, as far as I can tell. I have been very busy. It feels like I have been spinning my wheels the last few weeks, though; doing a lot but accomplishing little. However, it changes this week. Mandy came up on Friday and we went to a Time Management workshop. It didn't do what I really wanted it to, which was map out my day for me, but it probably did something better. It put things into perspective. I have 24 hours in the day, same as everyone else. It is up to me how it gets split up and used. I need to use the time more effectively; prioritizing for myself and quit the multi- multitasking. I run myself in circles that way and I see that now. I actually started today. I went up to my shop, picked one project out of the many and completed it. I even checked it off my list. :-) That felt good.

Mandy has been working on a possible business venture called the Occasional Housewife. Unexpectedly, I was the recipient of her services. Saturday morning I had to be in Caribou at the crack of dawn. She was left to fend for herself for a little while. She did some light cleaning that I just hadn't been able to get to, but had been weighing on me. What a wonderful feeling to come home and have those things done. I think the Occasional Housewife has a real future! :-)

I feel exceptionally fortunate that I have my sister. In the short time she was here, I was more inspired than I have been in a while. She breathes life into my dreams. Thanks, Mandy.

So, this week:

1. Deliver completed magnets
2. B.card design
3. Vinyl lettered sign
4. Breast Cancer decals
5. Fire Dept. Maltese cross design
   
6. Read more of the E-Myth
7. Listen to more of Dave Ramsey
8. Make a couple more phone calls
9. Schedule engagement shoot

Phew, that's enough, but I think it is doable with focus and good time management. :-)

Progress Report 19

I had a great week last week! I completed nearly everything on my list with the highlight definitely being my trip north! The time management class in Presque Isle was surprisingly helpful and fun. It was not what I had expected, but it was a great added bonus to my visit. It set the tone for the rest of the day where Row and I got to discuss priorities, business, time, finance and self-improvement all as how they pertained to our families, goals, values, and ourselves. Though I was only there for a day and a half, I didn't feel rushed or anxious. It was exactly the visit I'd hoped to have.

I finally saw Row's new shop with my own eyes. It reflects her personality, and tastes but more than that, it radiates the love and care of her precious dreams and the heart of her future. I had the privilege to witness Row as she worked. I couldn't help but note the way she spoke of her equipment as if they were living things to be cared for carefully. I saw how skillfully she worked the hand tools as if they were extensions of herself. Her attention to the smallest detail of every design, though seemingly tedious to me, put her one step closer to a finished product and a very happy client: two things worth striving.

Row mentioned in our class that I inspire her, though she was unsure if she inspired me. Yes, Row. You inspire me. I've jokingly spoken of your shop as a 'diamond in the rough' because until you walk through the door, you'd never know that beautiful shop was there. Like a rare, exotic flower in the midst of a hay field. It is truly a 'diamond in the rough' because it is such a precious thing. Not because of the cost of equipment or renovations, but because it encapsulates a love, a dream, a passion. You are definitely an inspiration! Thanks.

This week will be a busy one. We have eight special services crammed into 4 days, Thurs-Sun. I will be working my second job on Monday and Wednesday. Eric has another contract and must do some onsite work Thursday. I'm not really expecting to get any great things accomplished this week. However some things are pressing.

This week I will...

1. Work
2. Plan meals during Heritage Conference
3. New budget and bank visit
4. Pick up a few groceries
5. Get some white dress shirts for Eric
6. Set up for chicks, bring home chicks
7. Read more of You, Inc (Great book!)

Progress Report 18

The weekend is over and it's Monday again. My books that I ordered came Saturday while we were out of town. I've been able to read a couple of chapters. I can tell that these books will prove to be invaluable information for a small business. It's already changed how I see things and taken the fear out of much of the planning.

Geoffrey should finish his school work today or tomorrow. Then I'll have the fun of going through all of the tests and giving a final score.

Friday I'll make the trip to Aroostook to take a Time Management class with Row and visit with family!

This week I plan to:

1. Clean house
2. Mow lawn
3. Go to 4-H
4. Call PO about chick pick-up
5. Go to PI
6. Register Eric's car

TGIF, I guess...

Yeah, it's Friday. My list is already accomplished and I feel like I have very little to do. It's been like this most of the week. My plans for the day only take up a couple of hours and I'm left with a lot of down time.

It's funny how much I dislike being on the run all the time or busy, busy, busy, but not having anything to do just feels wrong. I feel stagnant. I have energy and creativeness that don't have an outlet. I've tried to read but find myself starting several books and not getting into any. I ordered some books from Amazon, but they won't be here until next week. Can't wait for next week! I want information to devour. Right now I'm stuck with Martha Stewart's Housekeeping Handbook. :) Not really a page-turner. But I'm calling it "training".

I've worked on my business model. Trying to narrow down the niche and form a mission statement and work on how to gain and keep customers. I've taken a lot of notes, done a lot of research online and critical thinking on paper. I'm good at the planning stages. Hopefully the follow-through won't fizzle out. Right now, I wish I had 3 or 4 clients a week. That would give me something to do.

The next two days are full and the kids have a play date with the neighbors' kids later this afternoon. Next week will be here before I know it and full of new possibilities. I'll get my books and will get to visit Row on Friday! Can't wait! I finally get to see her new studio in person and have the chance to sit and talk for an afternoon.

Progress Report 17

I'm hitting the ground running this week. There are so many things that I want to do! The warm weather we've had this weekend along with some fresh inspiration has fueled my fire again. I'm determined to make the best out of this week and put my best foot forward. I've heard it said that the enemy of "good" is not "bad" but "mediocre". I don't want this week to just be another week. I've had enough of those, I want a great week!

With the help of my husband and Row, I hope to officially launch The Occasional Housewife soon. Eric has already purchased the domain for a website and Row has agreed to help with business cards and brochures. I have to say that as intimidating as starting a business can be, with the support of people like them, I feel like I have a greater chance of succeeding.

This week I plan to:

1. Mow the lawn
2. Clean house/laundry
3. Work on business model
4. Visit in Jay
5. Plan Mother's Day craft for SS
6. Grocery shopping

Business Idea

I've been thinking about a way to make some extra money lately. I currently work a job doing housekeeping for a well-to-do family. I enjoy cleaning and helping to make their household run more smoothly but I find that the daily management of someone else's household can be draining and even frustrating at times. I've stayed away from the standard 9-5 job because I enjoy the flexibility of housekeeping, the feeling of accomplishment and the wages are better than any other job for a relatively uneducated housewife and mother of two.

I really started thinking about the varies skills that I have and how they may be beneficial to others and even monetized. A stay-at-home mother has many skills that are lacking in many "professional" households. Salary.com estimates a mom's worth annually at $117,850 on the average. That is taking into account the many "jobs" that a mom has, the average pay for each job title, and the number of hours per week that each job is performed. If stay-at-home moms are really worth so much, why are there so few these days?

I read an article in a magazine recently that opened my eyes to the type of business that I think I'd really love. A busy, professional woman realized that her home was missing a housewife. She was busy with her job and found that her home was lacking in the domestic area. She was prompted to open a business to help professionals, like herself, who were too busy to perform daily domestic tasks. That's the business for me!

I've given it quite a bit of thought lately and even ran the idea by a few friends. I'm going to call it The Occasional Housewife. The Occasional Housewife will offer services like organization of any room, eliminating clutter, filing/bookkeeping, bathroom cleaning, decorating/un-decorating, personal shopping, running errands, packing for a move, cleaning vacated houses or apartments, spring cleaning, or anything else that that you don't have time to do. These services will benefit working moms, professionals, single moms and dads, bachelors, seniors, and large families. My rates will be $20/hour for 1-2 hour slots. Weekly customers will receive a discount and $.15/mile in addition will be charged for running errands. I may need some brochures and business cards made up (ahem). :) My overhead would be low so I think I can try out the business without much risk.

Progress Report 17

The last couple of weeks have been absolutely crazy. Arianna has tennis almost every day after school. J has been working on his race car and I have been pounding out decals for it, as well. I have been doing some studying, attended the Maine Center for Women Work and Community ambassador orientation meeting, finished a logo and have sent out a couple more estimates. I have a bunch of emails that need to be returned and a couple of phone calls to make. Cleaning up after the puppies takes at least another hour out of my day. I love the little things, but will be glad when we are down to just one. BUT, thankfully, I will be attending a Time Management workshop on May 14 which will make everything all better. HAHAHA I'm hoping it helps at least. I must keep this short, as I have much to do for the weekend.

1. Pay a couple bills
2. Return emails & phone calls
3. Attend Arianna's home tennis match
4. Create NE Pellets t-shirt designs
5. Finish BAND header
6. Redesign DbR business cards
7. DbR ad for SBS Guide
8. Prep for Caribou City Wide Yard Sale

Phew, that's enough, but not everything I have to do. :-)

Progress Report 16

SOC is over! No more skit writing or practices. No more late Saturdays and early Sunday commotion. The stress is over. :)

Geoffrey attended his Lego Robotics Camp last week. He had a great time and has lots of stories to tell! It was a long week for him and he was very tired by Friday evening, but he always couldn't wait to go back the next day. I'm glad it was a positive experience. He's already planning on saving his money for next year's Robotics Camp.

I did get Dapper registered last week, finally. He's no longer an outlaw. The car, we realized doesn't have to be registered until next month, so we're holding off. We were able to get our burn permit and burn the brush that we'd piled up from our spring cleaning. The kids loved the fire even though it was raining. We even had burgers and ate outside (in the garage) to watch the fire.

We also took the kids to the park last week so they could play and ride their bikes. It rained off and on, but it didn't seem to dampen their day. We made sandwiches in the car and had a good day in spite of the weather.

The kids helped me wash and vacuum the cars and I was glad to see Row and her daughter on Sat. when she brought my mother down for a fun day on the town. I wish they could have stayed longer, but it was great to see them anyway!

This week I want to:

1. Catch up on laundry and dishes
2. Go to game night
3. Take kids to the circus
4. Have SS walk-a-thon

Progress Report 15

Last week was fulfilling. I finished every thing on my list without much prodding. The SOC drive is almost over. I wrote the last skit yesterday and handed them out to the actors. We have a practice Sat night and the final performance is Sunday morning.

This week is school vacation, though Geoffrey is firm that he will continue to do his school work anyway. He's bound on finishing the year early. He's already completed all of his math and literature. Starting Tuesday, Geoffrey has LEGO robotics camp. I'm very excited that he's going! Not just because it's a learning experience and he'll meet new people, but because he worked hard to get to go. The camp was expensive but Geoffrey raised all the money himself to go. I'm sure that gives him a good feeling.

This week I only work 2 days. They'll probably be long days. But on the other days, I can devote to things around the house. I also started writing what I hope someday will be a book. It's one of my items on my list of 30 Things. I'm going to write when I have something to write and not try to force anything for the sake of finishing sooner rather than later. I like to write and share knowledge. That's my goal.

This week I want to:

1. Register Eric's car
2. Register the dog
3. Get groceries
4. Clean the toy room
5. Clean the bathroom
6. Sew something
7. Write

Progress Report 14

Starting to feel like time is getting away from me. I have registered to go to a time management workshop May 7. Until then, I will use the excuse that I don't have the skills yet. :-) I finished the client logo, completed the QB update, went through 2 and a half lessons in my Illustrator class and started trudging through the second half of my computer course. I also designed and printed a bookmark for Bobbi's Build an Ear. Bobbi and her family head to CA next week for Bobbi's first surgery. They will be in our thoughts. There is a big send off this Sunday at their church. It has been amazing to be a part of their journey.

This week:

1. Go to Arianna's play
2. Sign Arianna up for high school classes
3. Finish the third lesson and do an original graphic for grading in Illustrator
4. Redesign my business card
5. Design a new ad for the SBS Guide
6. Fish for more work by completing Eric's header.
7. Huge dog and pony show at work on Friday; try not to kill anyone before that day is over. Wish me luck.
   

Progress Report 14

Last week was fairly productive. I worked hard on SS events and work. Dapper went to the vet on Monday to get caught up on his shots. I had a nice visit with Aunt Paula on Friday and a fun time digging for worms on Thursday. I also ordered 8 baby chicks Friday. They should be arriving the week of May 17th. We picked up Eric's car from the garage on Saturday so we finally have 2 good, working vehicles. We have to finish paying for the repairs this week, and then be free from car expenses for a little while. Then I can concentrate on getting my car paid off early. We also had our taxes redone to show the contract work Eric did for his job last year. We ended up having to pay into the State, but only a small amount. This year we'll have to stay on top of our taxes so the IRS doesn't come down on us at the end of the year.

This week I have to:

1. Write last skit for SOC
2. Mail tax payment to the state
3. Help Geoffrey get his worm business moving
4. Kids' 4-H meeting
5. Pay repairs on car
6. Go over new budget
7. Clean Ella's room

Nobody Likes Me

Guess I'll go out and eat worms... :) Yesterday, Geoffrey, Ella, and I dug worms for 2 1/2 hours. A strangely addicting experience. Whenever we thought we were done, the thought of "just one more" kept us going. Our friend Katie sells worms to fishermen at the end of her driveway and talked Geoffrey into going into the business for himself. $3.00 a bag for 40+ worms. I'm sure we picked over 1000 worms. If they sell, that's $75 for Geoffrey which equals $30/hour. Pretty good rate for an 8 yr old! Of course Ella and I helped too, so Geoffrey has agreed to pay Ella a few dollars from the first few bags sold. And I will chalk it up to capital investment and hope that Geoffrey learns a lesson in good work ethic. He has also agreed to pay me $4.00 for any additional trips to the "worm field" which is about 30 miles round trip. Geoffrey will be busy today, making a sign and bagging his worms for sale. I will be ordering my new chicks. Easter Eggers, Barred Plymouth Rocks, and Buff Orpingtons. Can't wait!

Progress Report 12 & 13

So the days seem to be getting away from me and I'm getting a bit inconsistent with my progress reports. However, after looking back on my last list, I've managed to do pretty well. I not only finished the clients marketing materials, but delivered them today. I am also mid process on another logo job and Bobbi's Build an Ear hired me for another project, which I sent out for printing tonight. I have completed two jobs with my vinyl cutter as well; commercial lettering for a pickup and a simple sign for the local rifle range. I also got my ad designed and placed in the Swap Buy Sell Guide for two weeks. I've gotten a couple of bites, but no takers yet. I am hoping that next week will see a better return as it is getting closer to the start of the season in May.

I have transferred a good portion of my files to my new computer and am almost done with the QuickBooks set up. It is far enough along that I am using it easily. I love QuickBooks Pro 2010. It is very user friendly and will make next year's taxes a lot easier. I've been able to talk to my accountant a couple of times for pointers. He's been great. I finally took my test this week; got a 97. I'm not complaining as this has been a terrible long section. The next half of the class is at least as long. Yuck. To shake it up a little I have jumped ahead into my Illustrator CS4 class. The first chapter is very basic and all review for me, as I have been using Illustrator in some form for about 10 years, but there are a lot of great new things in CS4 that I am really looking forward to getting into.

Arianna has made the tennis team, which means lots of after school practices. I'm hoping that work keeps coming in like it has. It's a great feeling.

1. Parents' night tomorrow at PIHS
2. Complete logo
3. Finish QB update
4. Update DbR website (long overdue)
5. BAND header if Eric hasn't given up on me. :-)

I think that is enough, as it is already Wednesday night. Life is good.